
Being a Victim – How To See It Differently & Heal
Being seen as a victim often has a negative connotation in our society. As victims, it can leave us feeling alone and somehow defective. This blog aims to change that perspective.

Being seen as a victim often has a negative connotation in our society. As victims, it can leave us feeling alone and somehow defective. This blog aims to change that perspective.

Tethered Tendrils Summer in my garden last year brought two powerful reference points for inner exploration. The first came with an enormous watermelon plant that

We all know that sinking feeling when we dare to share ourselves deeply, only wanting to be heard, and instead someone minimizes us and our situation, telling us we shouldn’t be feeling the way we do or thinking the things we are. Then, we silence ourselves and retreat back into our protective shell as shame overtakes us. This is an exploration of the societal standard that prevents people from truly being present with one another.

Some time ago, I learned of the death of a man who I knew socially. We were not close, and I knew little about him,